ex girlfriend dating friend

December 21, 2007 by admin  
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ex girlfriend dating friend
ex girlfriend dating my friend?!?!?

So i dated this girl for 15 months we were planning on going to different colleges….then last july she broke up with me saying her feelings had changed and that she just wanted to be friends. I haven’t talked to her since but i know she dated a guy for about a month in february. Now she is dating one of my good friends and im kinda pissed about it. Am I wrong in being angry with my friend or her? I don’t know about you but I look at my friends ex girlfriends as off limits…am I wrong?

Get over it. You had your chance with her and it didn’t work out. Move on to other relationships. You already know that she isn’t the one for you.

Dating Advice : How to Date a Friend’s Ex-Girlfriend


dating after divorce with kids

October 24, 2007 by admin  
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dating after divorce with kids
When is it ok for your kids to start thinking about dating after divorce?

If your spouse not only cheated but with a family member and the kids and you found out after a long divorce..when can you start to think about dating? I don’t want to hurt them more and my kids have forbid me (saying, “NO MAMA, no boyfriends! You have us!” etc) to even think about it, so here I sit after a few years thinking maybe now? But I have tested it out saying things like “I think I want a boyfriend” etc and they just laugh and hug me and say the same old “NOOOOO MAMA YOU HAVE US!” HELP!! lol

Well if the divorce is over and its been a few years and you are interested in dating I would go ahead and do it. As much as you love your children, there is a such thing as them being too attached. I am not sure if the ex was abusive, but usually kids wouldn’t react that way. Especially, in todays society — because divorces aren’t rare. But if they are really like this, I would wait until all the children have reached 7th grade, by then they should understand relationships.

Dating after divorce with kids in the mix


dating and herpes

October 19, 2007 by admin  
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dating and herpes
Should a non-herpes diabetic date or marry a woman with genital and mouth herpes due to autoimmune concerns?

I am an insulin dependent diabetic in good control and in good health.

I met a woman who I fell in love with that has herpes both orally and genitals. Can my weakened immune system from the diabetes make it easy for me to catch herpes from her even when her herpes is lying dormant?

Herpes can be spread to you when it’s dormant weather you’re immune system is compromised or not. This is due to viral shedding which happens in between out breaks and it’s undetectable. You may have more of a chance of contracting it and may have a rougher time dealing with out breaks IF you do contract herpes from her. You may have more frequent out breaks when your immune system is lowered by illnesses, infections or stress.
If you are really in love with her and want to be with her, then that risk is some thing you should take into consideration and some thing you should talk to her about. There are things you can do to help prevent you from getting herpes. If she ever does have an out break orally or genitally then do not have sex until the out break is totally healed and gone. She should also be on some kind of suppressive therapy, this will also lower your risk (but not completely eliminate) of getting herpes from her. When she doesn’t have an out break she is less contagious but there is still a slight risk that she could pass herpes on.

Online Dating & Relationship Advice : Dating With Genital Herpes


dating someone with kids

August 31, 2007 by admin  
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dating someone with kids
Why do Asian parents tend to dislike their kids dating someone black?

Like my cousin she dated this Chinese guy, his relationship with his parents went down so much, they would tell keep telling him to go with a Asian or white girl, and that black girls aren’t good enough for you. His mom (besides causal conversation) stopped talking to him for almost a 2 years, and his dad told him he has dishonored the family. But the dad surprisingly dropped that attitude months later. I know other Asian people who have went through similar things like that as well.
Do most Asian parents act that way?
And why or why not?

Because most Asians have historically kissed our butts in a shameful attempt to gain our approval in this country. Instead of fighting AGAINST the majority that makes us look bad by wronging black minorities, they took the “beaten dog” method and adopted the foolish mentality that in order to be seen as “white” or accepted they must put blacks down.

As long as there is someone lower than them on the racial ladder then they are content. This is where the term “banana” comes from when talking about Asians with no self esteem.

Maisee is a prime example of what I’m talking about. She doesn’t “know” the majority of blacks. She just listens to what other equally misinformed people say, then feel their incorrect conclusions are 100% correct when they meet one individual who acts like she was told. While completely ignoring the ones who DON’T and call them “an exception”.

It’s a fancy trick “mindless whitewashed sheep” use to justify their own prejudices.

Dating someone with kids?


are we dating or friends with benefits

August 3, 2007 by admin  
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are we dating or friends with benefits
Are we dating or just friends with benefits?

I’ve been hanging out with this guy, we hang out once a week and we go to dinner, have drinks - he always pays…then we’ll talk about life, love, our parents and things we want out of life.

We’ll also make out and have sex.

So, are we dating or just friends with benefits? We dont talk during the week except to text each other to make arrangements to meet.

you are just friends with benefits

RealTalk Guru’s Episode 1 Part 2 “Dating & Friends with Benefits”


dating with herpes

July 31, 2007 by admin  
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dating with herpes
How does one handle dating and having herpes?

If you are using a dating service such as Match.com, at what point do you let someone know you have herpes?

Sonia I have answered you in your other question re: Herpes

Whilst honesty is the best policy it pays not to be too out there with letting other know,until it gets down to the nitty gritty and then only if you are sure you want to have protected sex.

It can come back to bite you big time from being frank and forthright, so be sure that partner is receptive for you to mention STD.

Most ppl believe it or not know of someone who has Herpes as 1 in 5 carry disease,it is prevalent amongst Dating Services also…

Dating Advice : Dating With Herpes


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