dating with kids after divorce

Dating with kids after divorce…?

What seems like a good amount of time to date before living with someone again if there are children involved?

It depends on a lot of things. Each child will feel differently about the situation. I would expect a full commitment to myself and my kids (marriage) before living together.
Don’t forget to discuss rules and discipline. Are you willing to let him discipline your children? If so, does he know all the rules and proper consequences? If you don’t want him disciplining, can he accept that? Will your children show him respect without him being given parental authority? Will the children have a chance to get to know him well before he lives in the same home with them? Will the children have to move out of their current home and into his? That could be a major factor if they have to adjust to both at the same time. Are you children already well adjusted? There are just so many factors that there’s no way to put a generic time frame on it.

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