advice dating younger men

I really need some ADULT advice about dating younger men, from older women if possible..??

I know I already asked this question but I think mostly unexperienced teens answered
I need some dating tips, what should I expect from a younger guy early 20’s, what should I not do, what is the downside to this type of relationship ?
Do I have to wait for them to mature, or can I mold him..?? If you’ve dated or married a younger guy, please advise

I married a guy younger than me. He will want to play more. Most guys in their early 20’s are still into things like video games and it isn’t something you can just break them of over night. Don’t talk about marriage and kids because it will send him running for the hills. Play it cool. And what ever you do, don’t start acting too bossy or nagging him. If you are much older than him, all he will see is that you are trying to be his mother. Dating a younger guy and even marrying a younger guy can be wonderful. They aren’t whipped by the responsibilities of the world so they are more care-free and they can add more spice to your life. Just remember that while an older woman dating a younger man can put you into a different category with your friends, it can do the same for him. Be prepared. If there are quite a few years between the two of you, don’t be surprised if his own peer group have some snarky comments about you dating. From somewhat nice (hey, it’s Stiffler’s Mom) to calling you a cougar. If you don’t know these references, Stiffler was a character in the movie American Pie and one of his friends got the priviledge of sleeping with his mom. A cougar is a slang term to describe a 35+ year old female who is on the “hunt” for a much younger, energetic, willing-to-do-anything male. If this does happen, just chalk it up to the fact that they are threatened by you and have fun. Be mindful that many men, regardless of age, are out to have fun but not necessarily in for a relationship. Make sure you establish what you are after first. If all you want is a man that can go all night, you will find some one out there eager to prove they can. If you want the relationship thing, it can get a little tougher. Most men in this age group are not looking for the domestic bliss relationship. Sowing their wild oats and making memories is for them. If you are lucky you will find a 22-23 year old and have a few good years of fun and then he will mature into the guy who is ready to marry. That’s how it happened for me. Now we have wedded bliss but my guy is still in his 20’s and I am in my 30s so the fun still continues. Good luck and remember that the best way to approach any relationship is to think about the person first, age second. Have fun.

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