the first phone call dating

new to dating…post first date phone call?

I have had many boyfriends but all started in highschool where dating is different. i am in university now and i had a first date with a guy on saturday the 9th. the date went well and he even extended it by asking me back for a movie. we kissed multiple times and i felt it ended on a good note. how long does it normally take for the guy to call to make the second date? i know we both had papers to write yesterday so it was no surprise to me that there was no phone call then. I am just wondering how long i should wait before i can consider it a failed attempt.

thanks!

Isn’t there like a 2-3 day rule thing for guys? That way he doesn’t sound desperate. I think that you should wait the 2-3 days. If he doesn’t call by friday (an extra two days just in case something came up for him), then you should be concerned.

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