10 dating commandments

Have any of you women read The Rules, The MANual, or The 10 Commandments of Dating?

What do you think? I’m 30, NOT about to get hurt again, in a pretty good relationship but he’s starting to give me mixed signals. He asked me to let him chase me at the beginning of our relationship but we were so atracted to one another that I didn’t make him chase me. NOW, I feel I should since he is already “dying” down. Maybe I’m too available and need to “get a life”. Any advice?? It’s hard though, b/c I’m so attracted to him.

never let them think that they are the only one in your life because they will start dying down as to speak. i know how you feel going through same thing right now today i told my bf that i was going to hang out with some friends and that made him wake up and see that i wasn’t revolving my total life around him anymore. i am very attracted to my bf also but you still need your friends also does he have friends he hangs out with or does he isolate you to just the two of you this is very unhealthy if he is. it is hard but you have to try to get out there and live your life too and dont let anyone ever hurt you. i hope this helps good luck.

LDS 10 commandments of dating - legalism and works based salvation